In ancient times once you lose your virginity you are no longer a mature woman. You can’t say you’re mature after sharing your purity to men unworthy. It is mystical contradiction. Maturity is purity. It means your senses are intact. Today, why is the opposite the case? Birdman didn’t know; Kanye West didn’t know too? If you ignore purity get ready for impunity.
A mature woman is a woman whose virtues are intact because she has sense and is selfish with her body. Mature women have virginity, vitality and validity. A valid woman is one who has the skill to farm and trade to support her husband. A vital woman is one who has a a diligent spirit able to help her man. Virgin is pure, matured wine, untapped.
What I am sharing with you about Early Marriage = Stronger Bonds is backed by history and data. What just happened to Bird-man is painful to read and it is important I drive you guys back to history.
Japanese (Edo Period): Girls married at 12–15, men at 15–18 (1603–1868).
Hebrew (Ancient Israel): Betrothal at 12–13 (Talmudic tradition).
Hindu (Vedic Era): 8–12 for girls (Manusmriti, later reformed).
Buddhist (Ancient India): 12–16 (aligned with Hindu customs).
Catholic (Medieval Europe): 12–14 (Church law until 1917).
Igbo (Pre-Colonial Nigeria): 14–16 (negotiated by families).
Hausa/Fulani (Pre-Colonial Africa): 12–15 (Islamic influence).
Islamic (Classical Sharia): Puberty (9+ for girls) (Quran 65:4, cultural variations).
Chinese (Imperial Era): 12–16 (Confucian family codes).
Taiwanese (Qing Dynasty): 14–18 (similar to Chinese customs).
RESULT? These societies had <5% divorce rates—lifelong bonding was the norm. Visit China, Israel, Japan,Taiwan, India, Hausa Fulani families and Old Igbo land today, you will know why their families thrive.
MODERN MARRIAGE = DISASTER
Why can’t we as a society begin to re-imagine age of marriage?
Toni Braxton & Birdman: Divorced after 1 month (2018).
Kim Kardashian & Kris Humphries: 72 days (2011).
Britney Spears & Jason Alexander: 55 hours (2004).
They’re all above 25 years, the ladies. They were not really matured women. They lacked virtue.
Why are modern marriages shattering? Why are women continually asking for the wealth of their spouses thereby further discouraging marriage to older women!? Age and lack of virtue : Virginity, Validity and Vitality.
Delayed marriage + high partner counts = marital instability and gold-digging.
Young men listen, studies show that women with 10+ premarital partners have a 33% divorce rate (vs. 5% for virgins) (National Marriage Project). Go and verify this.
80% of divorces are initiated by women—often those with higher body counts and those who have passed 23 (SSRI, 2020).
Pair-bonding damage is an another factor: Oxytocin depletion from multiple partners reduces attachment ability (Evolutionary Psychology).
Our ancestors weren’t perfect, but they understood:
✅ Early marriage = deeper bonding.
✅ Lower partner count = higher loyalty.
✅ Family/community oversight = accountability.
Modern feminism sold women a lie—and now society pays the price.
IF MODERN MARRIAGE = DISASTER, WHAT DO YOU SUGGEST ?
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