WHY SHAUN STYLIST WAS DUMPED BY LEBOHANG

This was when Shaun Stylist was madly in love with Lebohang. Love stories are always inspiring and interesting. 

Things changed when she met a richer man. It took a quick turn to be honest. Shaun was brutally broken. The news was humiliating.

Lebohang, a South African lady, made headlines after leaving her boyfriend, Shaun, for a wealthier man, Nico Matlala in 2017.

Here is the richer man, Nico.

Here is her message, brutally delivered to a man she was in love with earlier, Shaun.

At the time Shaun, a stylist, was accused by Lebohang of prioritizing social media fame over building a stable future. She claimed he didn’t own a house, couldn’t afford to marry her, and lacked the financial security she desired. This is clear hypergamy. She never had any of those qualities that she wanted in Shaun. She agreed to love him with a temporal passion lacking in honesty and integrity.

After the breakup, Nico Matlala, her new boyfriend, took to Facebook to mock Shaun. In one of his posts, Nico ridiculed Shaun’s focus on appearances, stating that life isn’t just about rocking matching outfits. The public drama has sparked conversations about relationships, financial stability, and the pressures of social media.

The beautiful twist of this story is that Shaun eventually got married to a more beautiful woman: while Nico dumped Lebohang that same year and she has remained unmarried.

Shaun Stylist began to grow his business and today is doing better than his ex. Hypergamy keeps women single, lazy and callous. It scares men since they can sense it when a woman is. It truly waiting for love but for a provider. Most single women are single because they are looking for a better man and not a lover they can build with.

In a world that often values material success over genuine connection, remember that true fulfillment comes not from wealth but from relationships built on honesty, sincerity, and mutual respect. Hypergamy—the pursuit of a higher social or financial status through relationships—might seem tempting, but it can compromise authenticity and the depth of your connections.

True strength lies in being honest with yourself and others, embracing growth, and fostering relationships based on shared values. Choose kindness over calculation, integrity over opportunism, and sincerity over superficial gains. The love and respect you cultivate through these principles will outlast any fleeting riches or status.

By prioritizing authenticity, you empower yourself to inspire and uplift, creating bonds that are as genuine as they are enduring. May you always walk the path of integrity, shining brightly for all to see.