Suspicion, the Love Extinguisher: Men Cheat more than Women!

The Holy Bible and the Holy Qu’ran are against suspicion:

1 Timothy 6:4:“they are conceited and understand nothing. They have an unhealthy interest in controversies and quarrels about words that result in envy, strife, malicious talk, evil suspicions!”

Qu’ran 49.12. O you who believe! Avoid much suspicion, for some suspicion is a grave sin (liable to God's punishment).

Suspicion compresses and electrocutes your affection. It is the love extinguisher. To unplug the switch of suspicion, first, refocus your trust on God. Give your man to God. Husband, if you keep suspecting her now that she is young, what of when she gets to menopause? You will then vanish as most Nigerian Husbands. Nevertheless, the culturelessness of Nigerian spinsters has unbearably dragged many old husbands into infidelity. Blame the husbands, 'cos they can decide to just suspiciously accuse the innocent mother of 5 or 6 children, then they vamoose for the spinsters! Research shows that men cheat more than women (Penn, 2012). You are more likely to cheat than her so they say!

Disappointingly, when somebody gets a wife, chances are that the wife has been used up a long time ago. Women start nailing very early. And according to another  research, women are more promiscuous (Baker, 2012). Of course, trust comes with conditions of dos and don’ts. Hence, don’t base your marriage on what you suspect or expect your woman to do. If you do, every time, that woman will frustrate you. Hence, it is hazardous to put your trust on a human being like you. Both of you may have disappointed several people who trusted you before your marriage, hence, don’t think after signing the document it makes a lot of difference. It doesn't. From this time, housewife submit to your husband but don’t be suspicious of him.

Q1.Why do men cheat on their women?

A.     A.  Most men are sloshed in the spirit of ethanol rather than in the Holy Ghost! No man can withstand the alluring pressure and modest price of sex and sensual bonanza in Nigeria, if he is not drunk in the Holy Ghost!

Q2. Do women cheat at all?

A.      A.Yes. More than men before and after marriage (Baker, 2012). The girls want to have you anywhere, even inside the car. E get as e de do naija babes o! They just want you, with or without! What makes it much worse nowadays, many women are leaving their men for another woman. Much more gay women in Naija now than ever before. Also, there are more women on the street in the name of runs. Yet, I don’t think Naija women cheat more than Naija men!

Which report shall we follow? Do women cheat more than men?

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